We splurge by ordering diet cokes instead of water, by staying at hostels where we don’t share rooms with six other people, and by buying new clothes, which never, ever happens (here’s Pecos wearing the ripped sleeve of a work shirt that I actually wore to work with a hole in it).
To add to the bleakness, the dollar continually sets news lows against the euro. The constant overcast skies Germany is infamous for haven’t mitigated the temperatures – which have sunk as dramatically as the exchange rate (both about 30 percent lower than last year at this time). And, because daylight hours at this latitude decrease quickly, it’s been difficult to get up and even more difficult to convince ourselves to go on runs in the afternoons. Together, those things make us poor, gloomy, tired, and fat.OK – that’s the sad way of looking at it. On the bright side, Kate’s almost done with her semester; we’ve saved lots of money by not eating out as much; everyone is talking about how great and snowy this winter will be (as compared to last year’s warm and rainy winter); and this coming Thursday’s arrival of my mom, step-dad, brother, and sister-in-law means trips, food, shopping, and fun.
The darkness and coldness mean more couch time, more time enjoying the company of friends, more fun Pecos walks instead of long runs (the top picture is Pec fleeing after getting unleashed at the beginning of a walk; the one below is him jumping to catch a kicked mouthful of straw during that walk), and fewer events for me to manage at work (which, in turn, means more on-time arrivals at home).
And, as I write this, I’m wearing a scarf for the first time all season, I’ve just booked a trip to stay in an ice igloo in Finland this February to see the Northern Lights, and we’re getting ready to go over to a friends to play board games (which, as a way to spend time, comes a close second to traveling).
Restraining desires is good. But enjoying each event, season, trip, purchase, and visit with perspective is probably a better way to look at life. Especially with my new top-secret conversion plan!